our first "soft" encounter

From the hubby;

After years of discussing my fantasy I couldn't take it any longer.  Sure the stripper experience really helped ease the desire for a moment but after awhile I wanted more.  I wanted to see another man touching my wife and making her feel intense pleasure.  I knew that she wasn't ready for a full blown experience but perhaps she was ready for something a little more tame.

I decided to ask her about receiving an erotic massage from me and another man.  I had joined a swingers site and met a couple of really nice men on the site.  I spoke to a couple of them and decided to set it up.  Well just like my wife said she freaked out.  I mean she was a nervous wreck. I knew she was going to need some drinks to get through this first real encounter so I arranged getting a room that was connected to a bar.

So we got there early and decided to kill a little time at the bar, needless to say she got wasted. Then we hit a snag, the guy who was suppose to meet us had to work due to a really bad storm that caused flooding at his work.  Man, I was bummed and she was stressed.  I knew we came too far for nothing to happen, if something didn't happen I'm not sure if I could have convinced her to try again.  Then a miracle happen, one of the other guys I had contacted on the swinger's site was in the area and agreed to come by.

Well like my wife said she was nervous, really nervous. Luckily the guy was really nice and patient.  We talked for awhile to help get her comfortable. Then to my thrill we massaged her, we massaged her as she layed there nude, her big beautiful tits exposed as well as her shaved little pussy. It was incredible. They even kissed, wow I can't explain how hot it was to watch my pale skin blonde wife kiss this dark skin body builder. The best part is, she liked it. She even said it while they were kissing. Sure she was drunk but it I still find it endearing that she said "that was good" after they kissed. I have to admit I was nervous about how she would react the next day, I didn't want her to have any regrets. To my pleasant surprise she didn't have any regrets at all.

toe in the water

From the Wife;

So...all the husband asked for for his birthday was for him and another man to give me an erotic massage.  Simple, right?  Ummm....no!  As much as he wanted this and as much as we talked about this day, I was a complete and utter bitch.  I was so uncomfortable and NOT wanting this to happen.  But being the wonderful sweet wife I am, I conceded and let it happen.

It was a rainy night.  No...a record breaking flooding night.  My husband checked us into a hotel that had a restaurant attached and I drank.  I DRANK.  I was so nervous, pissed, excited that you wouldn't believe.  And low and behold...the person he asked to meet us didn't show up because there was a major flood where he worked.  TOTALLY understandable.  But I was a nervous wreck to begin with, can you imagine what I was feeling like now...my first time?  Well, my husband being the horny and resourceful person he is, had a standby.

The standby, can I tell you how HOT he was?  Well, I was naked when he arrived BUT I was wrapped in a sheet because I was totally freaked out.

When he arrived, he sat in a chair and talked to us, to me so normally.  He was wonderful in how he made me more at ease.  BUT since it was my first "experience" I was shaking the entire time he was there.  I mean the ENTIRE time!  He joined us on the bed and they pulled the sheet down and my husband and our first experience started massaging me up my legs, my arms, my neck.  Sounds erotic, yes?  It was, BUT it was so nerve racking!!!  It has nothing to do with the wonderful men I was with and everything to do with me.  I didn't know what I was thinking.  I was sleepy and buzzed and freaking nervous!

The other man was wonderful and sweet.  I liked him very much.  He kissed me and since I was with my husband, he was the first man I have kissed.  I really liked it.  I liked him caressing me.   But there was NO way I was ready for the next step.  He didn't even take off his clothes.

Can I tell you that he was WONDERFUL?! As nervous as I was in the moment I had no regrets the next day.